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5 Keys to Teaching Your Young Kids to Pray

1/13/2016

 
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"Our kids should experience the love, power and faithfulness of God first-hand."

One of the best gifts we can give our young people, is the power of prayer. We can pray for them and pray with them, but when we teach them to pray we give them a resource that has no limits. The bond they develop with the Lord in prayer creates a relationship they can depend on for years to come. His reach exceeds ours and there are moments when despite our best intentions, we cannot be there for them. In the same way that we have learned to trust in the Lord, listen for His voice and connect with Him, our children need to be encouraged to do the same, on their level. When we show them to how to pray, and see their faith in action, we help them to establish their own record of faithfulness with Him. Praying children become praying adults.

Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it. Prov. 22:6


There’s no hard and fast rule for teaching your kids to pray, but here are just a few quick tips I’ve used along the way to helping God’s young giants develop a strong and consistent prayer life.

1. Lead by example

We are the best model of prayer and worship for our kids. If you are passionate about prayer and personal devotion, they will believe that is how they ought to approach their times with the Lord as well. Lead by example, show them the richness of your personal relationship with the Lord, giving them a pattern to follow and aspire to replicate.

2. Establish a routine

When you are helping your kids establish a prayer routine, set a time they can maintain. If your after school schedule is overwhelmed with sports, rehearsals and extra curricular activities, setting their prayer/worship time in the morning or before settling in for the night might be a better bet. You want to help them establish a time with God that they can commit to and not constantly have to reschedule. Teach them that keeping their scheduled times is important.

3. Set prayer goals and expectations

Chart what you are praying for each day. Help them to map out specific prayer goals and to note when God answers their prayers. Teach them to listen for His voice. 1 Samuel 3 is a great chapter to read with your children, or your class if you are teaching in ministry. Ask them often, what is God saying about, or what has the Lord been speaking to you?

4. Challenge them to grow

Challenge your kids to look for opportunities to grow in their prayer life. Praying in the spirit, learning to declare, interceding for others, speaking out what the Lord is showing them, or working on interpreting tongues. It’s a work in progress, but I have found that kids rise to the occasion when they are challenged by people they admire and respect. I remember one service in particular; I was opening in prayer and began to go into the spirit to intercede for the class. Initially, I was apprehensive about praying on that level with them because I did not want to “leave them behind” so to speak, but I was very humbled and pleasantly surprised at how many of the class joined with me, praying in the tongues, worshiping and sincerely engaging in the moment. After that, our prayer times as a class changed dramatically. Don’t be afraid to challenge your kids to go to the next level in their relationship with the Lord.

5. Be Creative!


Prayer can happen anywhere. Teach your kids that God is where they are, so if they have to break out and pray in the bathroom at school for whatever moment they’re going through at the time, so be it. God is there for them in every aspect of their lives. Some moments, they can be listening out for God’s still small voice, and other moments crying out for God to move in their schools or with their family. Incorporate different aspects into their prayer routine, like reading their favorite scriptures or beginning with the worship song that they love and inspire their creativity.

How are you teaching your kids, or your class to pray? I’d love to hear from you! Post your comments below on how you empower your child’s prayer life, or let me know about the challenges you have faced as a teacher, in incorporating prayer in class.

5 Tips for Teen Consecration and Prayer At The Start Of The Year 

1/13/2016

 
Psalm 71:5
For You are my hope, O Lord GOD; You are my trust from my youth.
The start of a new year is the perfect time to empower your youth group teens to reset, refocus and seek God's voice on what He wants to accomplish in their lives over the course of the next twelve months. Plan a dedicated time of prayer and consecration that is specific to them, emphasizing the importance of putting God first! When we teach them the principles of consecration now, we instill in them a practice they will use for years after their youth group days are long gone. Check out my five tips for organizing a teen prayer and consecration time and let me know your thoughts! Plus, for a great resource on the value of consecration, I encourage you to read 'A How-To Guide To Prayer and Consecration' by Dr. Paula Price. A great read and must have on the subject.

  1. Set a specified beginning and end date and map out attainable goals. Plan a "kickoff" service or meeting to initiate the consecration and an equally celebratory conclusion. Teach, inform and educate them on the importance of consecration and prayer and its benefits. Make your goals for this time specific and relevant to where they are. Where do they want to be in their walk with God by the summertime? How do they plan to get there? What answers do they need from God for this season of their lives? What is the Lord requiring of them? Encourage Q&A and empower them to keep track of how the Lord answers during this time.
  2. Create a consecration take-home that will give them scriptures, example prayers and a place to note their personal consecration goals. You can never go wrong by going 'tech' either. Utilize the social media outlet most popular with your group and create a way for them to keep up with each other's progress online, share testimonies and breakthroughs and post their consecration prayer requests.
  3. Empower students from among the youth to take the lead. In my children's ministry, the most impactful examples were the child leaders themselves. I appointed junior ushers, worship leaders, prayer captains, etc. Find ways to involve your most committed youth to inspire the other teens to get involved, stay dedicated and keep accountable during the time period you set.
  4. Involve the parents! When what you are teaching in service is reinforced at home, miracles happen. Draft a personal note to the parents explaining the consecration and your goals for the group as a whole. Encourage each parent or guardian to pray with their teens throughout the consecration time and give them ways to help their teens follow through and finish strong.
  5. Lead by example. Youth leaders, pray and consecrate with your teens. This is the last tip but the most important! Become a part of this process with them, demonstrate and be vocal with them about what God is doing in your life as a result. YOU are one of their biggest motivators.
My Top 10 Teen Consecration Scripture Go-To's
Matthew 6:33
Deut. 4:29-31
Leviticus 20:7
Jeremiah 29:11-13
2 Chronicles 7:14
John 6:35
Joel 2:12-15
Psalm 119
Philippians 4:8
Daniel 1:8-21

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